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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:for a while now I've been logging on to my boyfriend's bebo and facebook(I know his password) and looking at his phone.and i've been finding flirty messages, like he told one girl he thought she was fit on bebo and is often asking for girls' numbers. everytime i confront him, he says he'll stop doing it. He does for a while but then I find another flirty text or something. Well it happened again yesterday and I went mad, he's deleted his accounts now because he says I'm more important but is he really going to stop it?How can I get him to?Why do guys do this..is it out of boredom?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2009): maybe he deleted it and created a new one. My man said the same things to me to make me have a false sense oc sercurity... when all was well (i thought).. he was back on in a different name. just food for thought.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2009): A lot of guys do this, wanting a bit of extra attention, so don't take it personally. If he's deleted the accounts then maybe he has realised it's distressing you. Give it some time and see how you feel.
If he starts again, you need to think whether you can cope with this as in that case he probably won't ever stop. But give him a chance first.
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