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writes:Ok hope you can help! A friend of mine was out with her boyfriend and she met one of his friends. They got chatting and he asked her did she have any single friends so she thought of me and told him about me. He seemed pretty interested anyway we got in touch about 2 1/2 weeks ago via text and have been texting non stop since. We seem to get on really really well and have alot in common. Anyway last night we were texting and we were talking about sending photos of each other and I said "or maybe your offering a face to face!" He didnt reply and didnt hear from him for the rest of the night. Anyway got a little peeved so text him and said if he didnt want to meet up that was ok but not string me along. that I wouldnt be offended but let me know. Do you think I have got this all wrong and he is just gonna not be in touch anymore or that he doesnt actually want to meet that it was all fun on the phone. He has told me loads of times that he cant wait to meet me and has said "can you really like someone without ever meeting them". Did I do wrong by asking or what. I would love someones opinion?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2009): If he's said that he can't wait to meet you then you are not wrong in suggesting that. Leave it to him to contact you now. He could be a bit shy or want to know what you look like first, but it's up to him now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2009): A guy in his thirties that can't pick up the phone to have a conversation with you or ask you out isn't really worth getting too upset over. Texting is like the least effort way to check to see if someone has a pulse, not an indication of real interest at this age! Let him go.
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reader, Lina319  +, writes (20 May 2009):
 I don't think you did anything wrong. I would have asked the same thing if me and a guy were hitting it off for 2 weeks. Plus, you didn't come off needy or desperate.
Maybe, he got nervous. Sending pictures is different from seeing someone in person, you can see imperfections much easier thru demeanor, and body language.
I don't think he should have ignored your text tho, thats pretty immature. See what happens by the end of the week. If he still isn't responding don't waste your time, let him be a childish prick with someone else.
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