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female
age
36-40,
*mitasingh_2
writes: love my bf more than any body even more than myself whatever i did till date i did it for him and never looked at any other guy or felt like looking at nude men even...my bf is the only person in my mind..since paet 8years and i have no inclinatons for any male celebrity also i feel my bf is only my hero i am least interested towards any other man..i am very beautiful rich women and my bf is average looking man and short heighted than me and fianacialy week but i neverever felt bad though my friends wondered how could i select such a guy,but i just wanted true love.hhe cares a lot for me, we are even physical.since 8 years i never even though after loving him so much he could have an urge to look at any other women,recently he admitted that its a males tendency that they like to see nude women and seeing on the screen that is net and tv is ok for him as he doesnot do it in real life and ays he loves me only.then how can feel like seeing other nude women after seeing my body?what is love then?whats the rationality of marriage?why didi i sacrifised my parents,money all for him?is it worth sacrifising all for him?when all men are same and theres no love then i should marry some handsome rich guy?i am really disheartened what is true love please guys do reply...i need the answer its suffocating me and depressing me ...when he cared and cries for me so much then how can he say that love is caring and tendency to see nude women on screen doesnt make differnce in love.....that doesnt mean that if he sleeps with 100 women and care for me only and then say that its a male tndency but i care for u only and so i love you only...doesnt love mean that we are commited to each other and see each others body only,and theres a feeling of oneness attachment respect and so much of love.i feel as if he sleeeps with me only because he doesnt have any other option if he would get a chance he would sleep with those nude women on screen orelse why would he feel like seeing them?he ask me to cover myself properly and move out and doesnot want people to see me and touch me even he wouldnt like females touching and seeing my body when i go to parlor,then how can he say that he feels like seeing other nude women??please justify and advice me what to do i loved him like anything unable to live without him at the same time i am really hurted and dont feel like loving him...what should i do?
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reader, smitasingh_2 +, writes (20 May 2009):
smitasingh_2 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell mam but then what i slove?i never had any urge to see men penis i just love my bf though he has a small penis.i just believe in true love not physical!!!so now you justify
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reader, StudentOfLife  +, writes (20 May 2009):
 For a long time, I was telling people that porn doesn't affect a relationship but when I studied my past relationships, they seem to end when I started to watch porn on a daily basis.
By masturbating, the sex drive and attraction to your partner seems to fade. That's what it did for me anyway.
I read online that such addictions as drugs/alcohol/porn is like a plague to a relationship that eats the love out of it.
I don't know if it's the case for everybody but it was for me and it made me realize that it must be hard for a couple who doesn't have god in their hearts.
I regret to have lost that girl to such addictions and pray that it won't happen again.
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