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Am I being paranoid or is she actually cheating?

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Question - (20 May 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 22 May 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Im not sure if its my gut or im reading into it too much, but is she cheating on me?

I read into things way too much. I feel like shes cheating on me, or seeing other guys.

The reasons for me thinking this way:

She texts me way less than before. Used to text each other like 4 a day. now i get about 1 every 2 days. although its apparently because of goin over the cell phone plan.

We still see each other once a week (on the weekend) and talk least once on phone. Other than that, she really hasnt given me any other reason to make me think like this. It may be of interest, that I have been single for 2 years.

Am i being paranoid or is something up?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2009):

so... to summarise because she only texts twice a day - or 60 times a month or called it 750 times a year...you think she is cheating....

think thats paranoia...

star.x.

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A male reader, GrimmReality United States +, writes (20 May 2009):

GrimmReality agony auntWell, you are vague. what is your gut telling you?

Simply put, you need to give us more info so you can get the best advice possible. It could be anything from being busy to a whole host of other things. So think about what is bugging you. Is it the less frequent texts or is there some other stuff that leads you to believe she is cheating?

In lieu of info I would say trust your gut.

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