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*emmaxx09
writes:my ex boyfriend of a year broke with me in a text and and weeks later decided he wanted me back but i dont want to because he doesnt deserve any other chance with me. Its been months now and i dont think ive got any feelings for him but everytime a really nice guy asks me out i just cant find anyone attractive. My ex was horrible yet i had so many feelings for him but when a really nice looking guy who treats me well wants to be with me i cant feel anything. I dont know what to do, im quite worried
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reader, gemmaxx09 +, writes (21 May 2009):
gemmaxx09 is verified as being by the original poster of the question yeh i loved him a lot, he keeps emailing me all the time to sort things out, its been bout 4months now, ive refused to talk to him or see him, it was a shock he sed he was coming over then i get a txt saying its over we hve different views, i dnt kno if i can sort it with him tbh, after wat he did, its hard to go bk, thanks for ur advice
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reader, jayne_staaa +, writes (20 May 2009):
what your ex did to you was really cruel, i don't blame you for not wanting to take him back but if you still love him deep down you could sit down and talk to him about it ask him why he did it, might make you feel a bit better. but if ur really not wanting to get back with him then you need to concentrate on you forget about guys, learn to be content on your own, have a laugh go to clubs have girly shopping days and learn to feel really great about yourself, you don't need a man. the numbness is normal i mean you were in love with the guy right ?or atleast liked him alot? and it was a big shock for him to dump you by text but you need to either fix it or move on, my advice is don't go to the next guy too soon just take time for yourself and be young not concentrate on relationships.
goodluck x
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