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writes:Hi, i'm Brenda and i'm 37.. been married no kids.. well i have a sandwich business and deliver to various offices, well theres this one guy who is hot - really hot - he has his own office (just him working there) we always chat for ages anyway he invited me in for coffee the other day but i couldnt as i was so busy - he said he enjoys our chats and thinks my husband was mad for leaving me as i am really good company - anyway he said when you finish your round on monday pop in and we can have a coffee then.. (hes a widower, 49 2 sons) - okay i have a major crush on this guy, do you think he could possibly like me - in a potential partner way if hes inviting me for coffee??? i guess i am building my hopes up, its been a long time - what do you think??
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reader, Fatherly Advice  +, writes (8 June 2009):
 Great! and thanks for letting us know how it went. I'm so happy for you that he asked you out and seems to be such a nice guy. Every one is nervous on a first date. He is probably more nervous than you. Try to relax and be your wonderful self.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (7 June 2009):
 You can now see that he did mean to ask you out. If you find him nice, why not give him a try? It's OK to be nervous.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi!!! so sorry for not getting back to you all and especially after all your wonderful advice.. well i went and we had a lovely chat he said hes been wanting to get me on my own so he could ask me out, he thinks my husband was mad to let me go etc etc!! Well we have agreed to go out at the weekend hes taking me to into Manchester and we are going for a nice meal... its weird tho but i dont know how i feel... i should be over the moon i mean god ive fancied him for ages.. but i dont know maybe i'm just a bit nervous now, after all it would be my first relationship after my husband - who treated my like dirt but i still have weird feelings for him.. even tho he treated me bad he laid on the guilt when i said it was over and i still feel bad to this day as if i abandoned him.. When i left the guys office i gave him a peck on the cheek but he came close towards me and i think i wanted a proper kiss but i moved away.. i think i'm being a wuss here!!! I will go on Saturday but i am afraid a bit anyway...?? x
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reader, Fatherly Advice +, writes (27 May 2009):
AHem!, It's well past Monday now. We are all cheering for you. So how did it go?
FA
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reader, Fatherly Advice +, writes (21 May 2009):
No wonder he likes you. You have a great sense of humor!
FA
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks! i'll try not to get too carried away...... but will let you know how it goes - aslong long as he doesnt say ' i asked you round privately to tell you that your sandwiches are really lame!'
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (21 May 2009):
I'm with Fatherly Advice. He likes you.
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reader, Fatherly Advice +, writes (20 May 2009):
In a word, Yes.
He may be in the early stages, but he is setting aside time from a busy schedule to enjoy your company. I'm pretty sure this is his way of saying he is interested.
I'm just a little younger than him but from a different country. That may color my opinion a bit. I like that he said your ex was crazy to leave you.
FA
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