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writes:I'm asking guys, but not only...So, if my husband can't get it up with me, but he is not physically impotent,/night erections present//then is it possible he will be able to get it up with someone else?I mean, I just don't know, if I should trust him or not?What do you think? Have you ever been in this situation? He is not having sex with me due to lack of sex drive, 2 years ago.What should I think?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2009): Do you think he might be in an affair?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2009): Do you have any idea, how to find out the root cause?
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reader, Sandman +, writes (20 May 2009):
 There are many reasons men are not able to obtain erections during sexual activity. However, if he is still having night erections, then the problem is narrowed down to something psychological. It could be stress, anxiety, finances, home issues, work issues, marital issues, etc. Or it could be all of those.
Finding out the root cause is the best solution. He may or may not know exactly what it is causing his impotence. If he's willing, he can see a psychotherapist who can help discover what his mental block is to begin working on those problems. Working on and resolving those problems will ultimately work out the problems in the bedroom.
Hope this helps.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (20 May 2009):
 It could be, if he has a mental block that involves you. Lets say he lost trust in you (just an example) that would kill your sexual appeal to him. Then it wouldn't apply to another woman.
However, you should have a clue if this might be the case. Has the relationship between the two of you changed?
Why has he lost his sexdrive?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2009): strange for a healthy male not to want sex. my friend always says that men get blue balls when they don't get it (meaning also they cum easily/too quickly) or they can't cum in a hurry when they are getting it often.???
so if he is not giving it to you, and there is nothing medically wrong, i would say please be super observant. he may be giving it to someone else. so plse start your investigation. check his habits/ any patterns/ strange behaviour/cell phone secrecy/porn watching/ overly mastubating .
men cannot live without sex. i believe they start behaving like mad men/ animals if they cannot get it. (sorry LOL). IF YOUR MAN IS SANE, NORMAL, HEALTHY THEN PLSE KNOW SOMETHING IS UP, BUT JUST NOT FOR/WITH YOU.
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