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Fine line between love and hate?

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Question - (20 May 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 21 May 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

right, there a girl at my schols says she dont like me, and i'm okay with that dont like her either, although she is fit, we've spoke now and again, anyway she's aways telling people that she dont like me, Why's she always talking about me if she dont like me so much? she told my mate to ask me why id ont like her and i said cos she dont like me she replied "So if i was to like him, he'd like me" now is it just me or does that not seem like something to be said from a girl that hates you, ( i know there's a fine line between love and hate ) does anyone think its possible that she's hiddin her true feelings? or am i just reading to much into it? aha

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2009):

I think that she has deep feeling for you, it seems to me that that she tells people she dis-likes you becuase she is afriad to admit her true feelings, for whateer reason.

However..if you wanted to find out the truth you could drop suttle hints that you like her or whatever to see if you responds and tell you the truth

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2009):

A person can love and hate at the same time. The opposite of either love and hate is indifference.

As for whether she has positive feelings for you or not is a possibility, but as with all possibilities, it is only an estimation. Since it is an estimation, no one can ever tell you whether that possibility is actually true or not.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2009):

no i have done the same thing i mean not on purpose but afraid the boy wouldnt like me back you need to make the first move or confront her

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2009):

girls are mean so she's either talking about u to ruin u which i woudln't let it get to u or she really is just jealous of u. Either way doesn't matter what she thinks cause ur awesome either way.

=]

good luck

&&

stay safe

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A female reader, love-struckxo Canada +, writes (21 May 2009):

love-struckxo agony auntAnything is possible, my friend. She may be curious - hiding her feelings or just being a straight up bitch.

Pardon my french.

I say, don't think about it to much, and try not to get it twisted. You don't want to end up looking like a fool.

Best bet is - start being nice to her. Try talking to her, say 'hey' when you see her around, and smile at her.

It's always good to be nice - whether she likes your or not. It's always worth a try.

Good Luck

xx

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