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female
age
41-50,
*may79
writes:I met this guy through a dating site recently and we went out for breakfast. We hit it off really well and got intimate with each other. He then asked me during it if I was seeing anyone else and I said no and I asked him if he was seeing anyone else and he said no and he asked me if I wanted to see him and I said yes. I left his place to go home and got a message from him in the afternoon that he missed me. But since then no messages or calls from him. I have been texting him just to say hi and he responds but that is about it. Why would he ask me to see him if he does not call me or to not even ask me out for a second date? Please help. This is really frustrating.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2009): It sounds like you have made it too easy for him to get sex. Men like a challenge. Knowing someone from a site is not really knowing them, so next time you meet someone in this way, spend longer getting to know them and then you will get less hurt.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2009): First of all you got intimate there was the problem. Men want what they can't have and unfortunately you gave it up too quickly. I am sorry if that offends but that is reality. Most men will tell you anything you want to hear and if you give in too fast they lose interest. Also men need to chase if you chase they will be chasing something else.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2009): maybe he's shy, why don't YOU make a move, why don't YOU ask him out, be assertive
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