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reader, Ted-ster +, writes (7 March 2009):
Jealousy is a powerful emotion. People get addicted to drama, jealousy, passion, anger, etc.; and use this emotional energy to get off, sexually and/or psychologically. Some people like playing with fire, even at the risk at, or even because of, getting burnt. Some like to share this energy with their lover, others keep it to themesleves. I had a GF who was a little like this... she wasn't boring, at any rate, but not for me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2009): That is right. Most people would get jealous. Very few people can conquer that jealousy and explore that line of sexuality successfully. I think they are very experienced with sex and they understand sex as it is. They know that their love is independent of sex. Until one reaches that level of maturity, it is a very dangerous area to tread.By the way, I dont know why people who dont have something useful to say, even bother to reply. If one thinks a question is meaningless, they have the right to ignore it.
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reader, wonderingcat  +, writes (5 March 2009):
 Are you referring to "people" as you, or your girl friend, or your room mate, or you brother perhaps? Or a porn movie you watch? Or "they" talked about over a couple rounds of beer?
Cat
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (5 March 2009):
They don't!
They would get very jealous.
If you are referring to a specific problem come back and ask advice on it. Don't just assume that everyone does and be vague or you'll get vague answers.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Mr Me +, writes (5 March 2009):
 Honestly, I think something is wrong. I would be incredibly pissed and seriously turned off if my girlfriend ever got turned on by someone else.
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Anyway, more subjectional:
Let's break this down...
... if you are the person getting sexually excited by someone else when you are with you current partner, then ask yourself this question: Do you really love being with your current partner.
... if it is really your partner being excited by you saying you're getting hotter by thinking of someone else, then ask yourself (AND HIM!!) what is up with that. You will need to ask him why he is so turned on when he thinks of someone else when you two are getting intimate.
Hope this helps... :-/ -- sadder face as this isn't a happy topic
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2009): I don't remember being asked that question.
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