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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: there's this guy.i've liekd him since october.i used to hang with him and his friends every single day. but then it just stopped after christmas break.about two weeks ago he started being alot friendlier to me. i know he's really into artsy girls, he knew i was artsy before, but now that i'm in acctual art class, and he usually sees me in action, he's been nicer.i think 2 weeks ago it was, i was walking to school, and BAM. he was walking beside me... and he just chatted it up with all the way there.i started messeging him agian, and eventually told him i missed eating lunch with him and his friends...he said he doesnt eat with them anymore, but suggested that we just eat together... and then i suggested hanging outside of school, he agreed. now, it would seempretty obvious to most people, but here's the catch. -_-he's really shy.and his attatude can change like that.the other day i was standing alone, he walked up all smiley, and talked to me.an hour and a half later, he's still all smiley, i say "HEY! :)" to him, and he's just like, "hi."i was talking to him through instant messeging, andhe was really nice, 2 hours later, i said hey again, and he's like "hi."ALSO, he didnt like me about.. 3 or 4 months ago..so, idk what my chances are.i think we're dealing with a guy that plays more games, and is more complex then most girls...-sigh-help?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionalso, forgot to ask, how to i handle my first lunch alone with him?
i can't really think around him, so, any conversation topics you can suggest that are easy?
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