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female
age
30-35,
*ydrocyanide
writes:I'd been dating my ex-boyfriend for a year and a half when he dropped the bomb. He was nearly my first everything- first kiss, first love, etc. He was the sweetest, most romantic guy ever, and he was everything I could have asked for in a guy. I fell in love with him when he told me I was the most beautiful woman he'd ever known and that he loved me more than life itself. When I moved away for college he was devastated, but I visited him as often as I could and we talked every day. This went well enough...until about a week ago he told me he was breaking up with me. He said his feelings had changed and he no longer loved me, and he was sorry, etc etc.A couple days later, though, he started sending me really mean texts. He said he never loved me at all, and the only reason he ever dated me was for sex. He said the "real him" is an ass that I would have never dated. Since I wouldn't have sex with him until marriage (and he promised he'd marry me), he broke up with me. Says he couldn't stand me a minute longer, and that he wants nothing more to do with me. Since then, he's been trying to hook up with a 15-year-old girl, I assume because he thinks he'll get sex from her easier. All these things he's told me don't seem real, like a nightmare come true. I still love him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2009): Wow what a jerk. He is right though, you probably wouldn't love the real him. Unfortunatly some men will say and do just about anything to get sex. It is a sad fact but true. I applaud you for sticking to your morals though, at least you didnt give in. I know this sucks right now and it hurts but you will get passed this and meet someone worthy of you time and love. Good luck and keep me posted on how you are doing!
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