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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I've got myself into a bit of a situation and i don't know what to do. It's a bit complicated...i've been seeing this guy for about 2 months now. It's was kind of 'friends with benefits'. I used to go round his in the evenings and 'chill'.But i've totally fallen for him! We get on really well and he is just what i want: clever, funny, attractive...Anyway, i told him that i want more, and he told me he wants the same. but did he say this just because he doesn't want to lose the sex? or did he really mean it?i'm confused!from the start, i got mixed signals from him, he would send me cute texts, saying he missed me, then wouldn't call for days. I never knew where i stood with him!But he's just lost his job and has moved in with his friend. He says he can't really take me out as he hasn't got the money and sometimes doesnt call for ages as he says he hasn't even got money to top his phone up. I felt like he just wasn't that interested anymore, and i went for a walk with him a few days ago to talk about it. He tells me to be patient and wait for him to get his life back on track, as he's in no position to get into a relationship right now. but that he really wants to be with me.should i stick around? or should i end it before i get hurt?if i do stay with him, will he start taking me out and treating me like his girl when he gets his life on track?PLEASE HELP!!!!!
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reader, tux  +, writes (5 March 2009):
 This is one reason why not to have Friends With Benefits, one of the parties is bound to fall for the other and in the end and someone is bound to get hurt. I would be cautious because yes it can be a honest I love you or it can be a I love you for your sex thing baby.
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