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anonymous
writes:Is it okay to let my boyfriend know how I'm feeling? He says I have to be more open with him and tell him when I want sex. He tells me all the time. Do guys like that? Makes you feel wanted.. ummm a turn on? I don't know..maybe send him a naughty text? Any ideas...?
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reader, Sweet-thing  +, writes (6 March 2009):
 I'd say yes, yes and yes to your questions. Do it all.
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (5 March 2009):
 Yes, tell him how you feel and what you want. A naughty text message while he's at work will really get him thinking about you, and wanting you when he gets home.
Men are rubbish at mind reading you have to be really clear with us, otherwise we'll happily sit playing on the Xbox while you really want us.
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reader, ISOHaven +, writes (5 March 2009):
Can't really add much to the first post except to back it up. Yes, us guys have all the same feelings as you women. We want to feel wanted. The more open you are with your partner the better off your love life will be.
Communication is NEVER NEVER NEVER a bad thing. It can only do GOOD!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2009): Guys love it when there girls tell them they want it dont beat around the bush
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2009): YES its ok to talk to him. He is not an ogre. He wants you to help him (since he is male and therefore naturally dull) know when to have sex. He is probably a bit shy.
Yes we do like being told things like a whisper in the ear (had spelt whisper wrong originally, made me laugh as had a picture of you trying to shove chocolate bar in his ear) in public place, or a stroking of certain parts.
We also like anything like a txt, email, letter, carrier pigeon that says a little of what you fancy...you can be subtle or open.
a good kiss does wonders.... as does being naked when he comes round. just try things - some will work, i am sure...
think what you would want him to say to you and do that?
Hugs star.x.
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