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writes:Me and my girlfriend broke up about a month and a half ago for what I found out were many small reasons after having gone seen here 2 weeks ago and spoke to her. Most of them were things like, I did not see her enough or make enough effort to find a job ect. I did leave hers though I think in good terms saying that we would be friends. After I got home I messaged her on facebook on the online pop up thing basically saying that im glad we chatted and that I feel abit better about things now. I said I would speak to her when I have had abit of time to myself to get over things to which she replied 'ok'. Now, 2 weeks later I have not seen her login on facebook, not once! I usually catch her on there 3 to 4 times a week on the messanger thingy when I am on there, I think she normally tries to check it everyday though. She has not blocked me, I still can see her profile ect. I have looked at her profile and a friend of hers had sent her a message about 2 weeks ago (a day or two after I chatted to her) basically just asking how she was, if she wants to meet up ect. Then there was one more message from the same friend again on her wall about 2 days ago asking 'where are you? are you ok? It is not like her to not reply to this friend or go without going onto her facebook for this long and I am starting to worry about her, thinking something might have happend. I texted her last night just saying 'Hey, how are you? Is everything ok?' I have'nt got a reply. She used to reply when we first broke up, but when I started asking her abit after why we broke up and that I wanted her back she started to not reply (This was why I went to see her 2 weeks ago) Anyways Im not sure whether to try and call her?? I don't think she will reply, but I would leave a voicemail basically saying somthing like 'I havent seen you on the facebook messanger for a while and noticed a message from your friend which doesnt look like you have replied to and its not like you so I am basically just wanting to know if your ok??' I just want to be there for her as a friend and know that she is ok, but I think she might feel that I will be awkward assuming that I want her back. A part of me does, but I know it will not happen and I will not push that discussion onto her again. So should I try and call her explaining that I have not seen her on there for a while and wondering if shes ok, as friends?? or leave it and just hope shes fine?? Please help a.s.a.p
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2009): Leave it. I bet nothing's happened she probably has gone on a trip somewhere for a few days and could do with out you to bother her!
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (5 March 2009):
 I think you should probably call her just to check if she is ok. But if she does answer, then make sure you are clear you were just worried something had happened rather than wanting to get back together.
I'm sure you would have heard from someone you know if something bad had happened, but just to put your mind at ease you should call her.
I hope this helps!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2009): dude call her, she could have killed herself..you never know.. call her!!!! And if she answers just make it quick...
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