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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:ok. so i met my bf where i live. but for a year he left to another country and we promised to wait. we would talk online and phone everyday. and his friends family knew about me. so he decided to move back here with me. he came with no cloth, money or family. this is when we started having sex. hes nice to me. real nice. but when we argue, he tells me he doesn't love me, never did, and its better we break up, and to leave him alone. so i did what he wanted. and a few days later he calls me and acts like if nothing happen. so i told him im confused and i don't want him to be with me cuz hes forced. and he just puts his hand him my mouth and gives me a kiss in the cheek?? and the bad thing is that wen we have sex he starts calling me names??? and after were done he cuddles with me? i don't understand him?yeah ive thought of that too. using me. but he has friends here. but doesn't talk to them to be with me. and when we don't argue hes real nice. and surprises me with tiny things, words or actions. even slept in my car once to see me early in the morning? and once i asked him why he does it if he doesn't love me. he said to be nice. but then we we don't argue. he loves me. and does all these stuff for me. and i told his sis the same. and she was shocked she said he seemed so in loved with me and had pic of me everywhere? i don't understand him.
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reader, cathay +, writes (5 March 2009):
 my friend this is an issue you have to sit down and talk about with your man. if you want this to work for you talk about it. And one more thing is he might be still oadjusting sexually. its har for him to accept that es gay. when he does it takes time, heartbreaking tooo. Hes not comfortable yet even if this is what he want. communication my friend is he best medicine.... Talk about it. Because he might just be using you.
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