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Boyfriend? OR FWB guy?

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Question - (5 March 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 5 March 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I can't choose between my boyfriend, who loves me a lot and a friend who wants to be sex buddies. I love my friend more than I do my boyfriend. What should I do?

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (5 March 2009):

eyeswideopen agony auntYou shouldn't have to setle for either one. If you don't love your boyfriend then get out of the relationship, it won't make you happy. As far a your friend looking for just sex, that's just a heartache waiting to happen. Time to start fresh and look for Mr. Right.

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A male reader, ArmyMedic United Kingdom +, writes (5 March 2009):

ArmyMedic agony auntIf you love your friend you should split up with your boyfriend, but this guy only wants you for sex!

Therefore when you get all clingy and "I love you" on him, he'll find a new FWB. FWB only works if you are Friends (NO LOVE or COMMITMENT) if you have feelings for this guy you WILL get hurt in the long run.

If you seriously like this guy you have to talk to him, and see if he wants commitment too, and find out if you honestly want to loose/hurt your boyfriend who loves you, and will never EVER speak to you again!

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