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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes: How can you tell if your man is growing bored with you?....First two years we had sex almost every night. Now it's barely once a week. He makes excuses to work late, or have lunch without me. I don't know if it's just because he's really that busy at work, or if he's getting bored with me, needing some space and just isn't saying so. How can I tell? If I ask him, he says no. But it could be an answer he gives me to protect my feelings. Any advise???
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2009): If he says there's no problem then except his answer. Sex every night is seldom something that continues years into a relationship. If you still feel there's a problem then maybe you sense things are getting dull. If this is the case why not pep things up a bit? add a little excitement or ask him for you guys to plan to do something fun and wild together when you are both free. Remember as well as being a couple we are also separate individuals so maybe do some things with your friends when he's busy.
I hope your fears are groundless, they sound it, best of luck xxx
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