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writes:My boyfriend gave me a ring on Feb 2006 and I accepted it but he didn't propose. He gave me the ring after he found out that there is another person interested in dating me. After he gave me the ring he said that we're engaged. And now I feel like he has changed his mind and doesn't want to commit. He's got so many excuses. But he kept telling me that he loves me. We haven't had sex for over 3 months now because I have an internal problem that prevents me for now from having sex. He wouldn't even let me touch him. We still see each other 3 times a week and go to church regularly. I don't know what is going on. I am confused.
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reader, buttercream +, writes (5 March 2009):
buttercream is verified as being by the original poster of the question To Britt429...you are absolutely right.We need communication.I will talk to him this weekend and I will get my answers once and for all.Thanks.
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reader, buttercream +, writes (5 March 2009):
buttercream is verified as being by the original poster of the questionTo emilysanswers..thanks for the advice.I will try to talk to him again about it.The problem is he's a very quiet person,doesn't say much and who takes almost anything as it is and not complain.I guess I'm the only one worrying too much?
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (5 March 2009):
He assumes a lot and so do you.
You both need to actually talk. fist off you should have made it clear that you are not engaged since he didn't propose. Wear the ring on your right hand till he gets down on one knee.
Next off you both need to TALK to eachother. You need to find out where you stand, why he is so jealous and insecure about the other guy, why you can't do foreplay.
There is so much sexual stuff you can do without having sex. Ask a teenager!
But seriously, no relationship will work if you can't talk to each other. Go and fix that.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2009): You need to be talking to him! Communication, communication, communication!!! Open those lines...and ask the questions that are dancing around in your head! You have the right to know what's going on! Tell him how confused you are and ask him what his feelings are!
Why do so many women feel we are not supposed to ask questions? Are we that afraid of the answers we will get? Are we afraid we may upset our partners and the relationship will end? If things are that fragile, then it's not as good as we think it is anyway!
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