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writes:OK, this is my second question on here and and I just want to say thank you to everyone who responded to my last one, you were all very helpful.Anyways, I'm in an amazing long term relationship with my boyfriend. We are very much in love and and plan on getting married. We're even having a child together [I'm due in July]. Things between us are.. well, perfect.We've been together for about a year and and started having sex after about a week [it just kinda happened like that]. We have A LOT of sex now, about 3 or 4 times a day. and and every time it's amazing. Sometimes he'll be all romantic and and go slow and and gentle, looking into my eyes and and kissing me throughout the whole thing. Others, he'll be extremely aggressive, doing me really hard, pulling my hair, biting my neck, and and things like that. He does everything possible to please me, he gives oral.. well like a girl =] He knows what he's doing in every way. Also, however we end up doing it, it's always the way I want it and and he can tell without me even saying anything. We have an amazing emotional connection. I've never had less than three orgasms every time I've had sex with him, and and I used to not be able to get off at all except by myself. He's the most skilled and and intense lover I've ever had. So here's my problem:I'm only 18 years old, but I'm very sexually experienced. More than most people I know who are older. This is not something I'm proud of, it's just a fact that I have to deal with.Now he's 20 years old, extremely attracted and and always had girls hitting on him and and trying to get with him [before he was with me]. However, he says that the most he's ever done with a girl before me was kiss and and make out a little bit. and and that was supposedly when he was 16. He said I was the only girl he's really wanted to be with since he's been living here, and and he didn't want to waste time with girls he wasn't interested in spending his life with. He said he wanted it to be something special that he only shared with the person he loves. [I honestly wish I could have lost my virginity to him, but the past is the past]I don't understand how someone who was apparently inexperienced could be so skillful in bed and and know so much. I've asked him again and and again if he's sure he never did anything else, and and I wouldn't be mad, but he always says he's telling the truth. Is it possible for a guy to be that good in bed and and have no experience? He was just as good the first time. Also he has good control over when he cums. He usually lasts a real long time unless we have to be somewhere else, then he cums while I climax. Could he really have been a virgin or is he lying to me?? maybe I'm just paranoid, idk. help?
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reader, PeanutWoman  +, writes (11 May 2009):
The thing is, there doesn't seem to be any reason for him to lie to you. You've had other lovers in the past. What good reason could he have to tell you he was a virgin when he met you? As far as I know, guys would generally lie in the opposite direction, i.e. claiming to have slept with more people than they actually have. You might just be very sexually compatible. I've been with a few people myself. Now I consider myself to be pretty good in bed, but there were a couple of people I just didn't click with sexually and I was terrible. Maybe he's so good because it's so exciting to him. I remember being much more enthusiastic and adventurous when I started out. My current boyfriend, although wasn't a virgin when we met, has had much less experience than me and was previously with someone who hardly wanted to have sex with him at all, so I don't think he got much practice, but he's incredible in bed - similar to your boyfriend in fact. Again, I just don't see any good reason for him to lie to you about it. It sounds like he feels really, really close to you. I would give him the benefit of the doubt because it sounds like you have a great guy and a great relationship, and you could ruin it by being so suspicious of him. It's just not fair on him and you're looking for problems where there aren't any.
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reader, kissxmexagainx +, writes (9 March 2009):
kissxmexagainx is verified as being by the original poster of the question I do trust him && I love him so much. it just seems a bit suspicious to me.
a few of you are saying it doesn't matter && I shouldn't care as long as I'm having amazing sex, but this is about honesty. I DO care if he is honest with me because it's a problem if he feels the need to lie.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2009): It seems like you don't trust him.I have never been with any other guy in my life except my partner and I am mind blowing.I know it.I feel proud of it.I read so much of romantic novels and I do put them to good use.Some of us are naturally good in bed.That doesn't mean we slept around.That kind of thought process is really bad.
I only hope its due to your pregnancy hormones that you are thinking too much and not push away the guy in any way.He doesn't deserve your mistrust at all.Oh yeah thank goodness for a hymen for girls.Jeez!What's the world coming to?
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reader, rambini  +, writes (5 March 2009):
 who cares whether its true or not??? to be honest, it isnt like you havent had plenty of others before him, so even if he has it wouldnt be fair to judge. if what he is doing is so good, and the relationship is so perfect then stop trying to pull it to pieces over things that don't matter!! be grateful and thankful that you hae such a wonderful relationship - others would love to be in your shoes! and congrats on the upcoming baby :D x
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reader, kissxmexagainx +, writes (5 March 2009):
kissxmexagainx is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI know you guys are right. The only reason I care if he's been with other women is because if he has, then he lied to me. honesty is the most important thing to me in a relationship. I am extremely happy with him.
starfish- you could be right about the porn thing. he told me before that when he was single he used to watch a lot of porn.
idk- I just hope he's honest that's all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2009): porn? thought about it before hand and prepared himself? if does yoga or similar he might be naturally controlled....
stop being so bloody stupid and enjoy. even if he has been with an army of women before - or one good teacher, then what does that matter- he is there with you and it just clicks. Get back to happy shagging - be happy stop thinking.
Hugs Star.x. (goes of muttering about no pleasing some people)
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