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writes:Dear Cupid,so, i'm kind of new at the whole dating thing. I'm 15. I know that true love is extremely rare at this age, and honestly i'm dating for experience, i'm not expecting marriage out of this or anything. Anyways, i have a boyfriend now, and we've been together since valentines day, its now march 4. we're doing good, but i'm confused on how much attention to give him. how can you tell when they want you to hold their hand or kiss them? how do i know how much attention to give?~youngheart916 Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2009): You do whatever you feel you want to do for your partner. With a little awareness and perceptiveness, you'll also be able to pick up on the little expressions, reactions and actions your partner give off. Which in turn may give you an explicit advantage on how to 'hit' the right spots for bonus brownie points.
"How much attention" is too restrictive. Why bother with playing cat and mouse chasing games that create unnecessary drama and doubt, when you can just do whatever you feel like doing?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2009): There are no rules. You have to do what feel comfortable. Normally if he wants to kiss you he will cuddle with you a little first or rub your back suggestively. But don't over think these things. Do only what feels comfortable. If you don't feel comfortable tell him but first ask yourself why you are uncomfortable. Is he being too forward or needy? Are you moving too fast for your comfort? What is your ideal relationship when you think about it?
Just do what feels right and talk to him.
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