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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:My friend has these roomates and one night, I had a makeout session with one of them. He wanted to have sex but I said no and left. Even though I like him, I found out that he is a complete manwhore so it will go nowhere. I have been talking to my friends other roomate, whom I grew to like because he actually wants a gf and respects women, unlike the other guy. Apperently, my friend told him that I liked him and he sounded excited and said that he should do something about that. Next time we hung out, he started talking to me more and asking me about myself (this was when we both were drinking). But whenever we are around each other sober (well not really sober, he smokes marijuana all the time) he doesnt really say much. Even though he is pretty outgoing, my friend said that he said he is a little shy when it comes to asking girls out because he is used to girls chasing him (and im used to guys chasing me lol) I want him to ask me out but I feel like he never will and I dont want to throw myself at him. Oh and he said that he doesnt care about me kissing the other guy. I go over to their house a lot but they are always watching tv so I cant really talk to him. What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2009): You dont want to throw yourself at him and may be, he feels the same too. You both gonna keep sticking to ur positions. So if you want something to happen, you have to take the initiative. He will take the initiative when he wants something to happen. By the way, how you feel entitled to take the moral highground against someone who, you think, doesnt respect women when you had no problem in having a casual makeout session with him? Just a curious question.
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reader, 24yeahright  +, writes (5 March 2009):
So wait.. you're flat out admitting that you're interested in a guy who "smokes weed all the time" ? I think you're old enough to be hanging around more mature people who don't need to be doing drugs all the time.. don't you?
That aside, I recommend you ask him out. Why does he have to be the one to ask you out? You don't sound like the conservative traditional type to me....
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