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Highschool girlfriends

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Question - (5 March 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 12 March 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, *randoni10 writes:

Alright so i was in highscool 2 years ago. Senior year all is nice popular doing mma keeping in shape. I find this girl she was 16 i was 18 we became friends. After months we decided to start a relationship. Everything was going nice took her to prom. She was kinda prude but thats not what i care about in someone. Then summer comes along we have occasional fights. After the summer iam not going to highschool and she breaks up with me. I was so lost and many suicidal moments. Drugs alchohal untill i decided to try and move on. Sad thing was i wld sometimes still think about her. Then after another year goes by. I am on AIM she messeges me and says she has been trying to talk to me for a cpple months or w.e. She then said if i wanted to do anything. So ovb i wasnt going to rush and be like were back together? So i took it as friendship went out to eat had a great time. Cpple months went by saw her a cpple more times. I then decided to join the marines.. When she found out after a cpple weeks she then sent me a mssg a week or 2 later that she thinks she loves me and blah blah but knew i was leaving soo... Then i decide well marines arnt for me. Ill do airforce which takes longer to leave for bootcamp. It has been alright till recnetly.We had one discussion where i wasnt feeling from her and she said that she isnt into the realationship like iam she said. She told me that her mom was a liar and manipulator and taht how she was raised. I feel like ive lost the connection with her. I call her alot and try to talk to her. But she doesnt anwser my calls or respond. And recently havnt seen her in 2 weeks and have barly said anything to each other. Sld i just back off and make sure she knows wat she wants? she is 17 and a senior in highschool. And she is going to go away for school and iam going to texas for the airforce. After the summer I dont know if i sld tell her that ignoring me is kinda immature. Just end it and tell her that ill be there for a real relationship when she is done college? I dont know I really love her to the extent i would die for her. Any suggestions. Iam not hurt right now jsut confused. The opposite sex always makes me anxious and nervous. But when iam around them i have fun and make them laugh. Idk wats up....Also i was the first guy to ever get in her pants give her orgasm ive heard first and only sometimes? idk i try to stay optomistic. Just scard to get hurt because the girls always tend to leave me.....

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A male reader, brandoni10 United States +, writes (12 March 2009):

brandoni10 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Well she ended it.... Things and times arnt going well.....

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2009):

I don't think she likes you as strongly man. Also it seems pretty random quitting the marines to join the airforce, but hey, your life

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A male reader, enjoimx United States +, writes (5 March 2009):

enjoimx agony auntWell man, you are going to the Air force so how serious do you want this to be? Why not just tell her the truth...tell her you love her but the timing is wrong and you should just have fun together, maybe the occasional shag if you are both mature, but its highly unlikely that occasional sex will produce anything positive. I would just keep your distance, focus on yourself right now, keeping those grades up for the air force, keeping fit, hooking up with girls who dont want commitment, just overall having fun. Try skateboarding down a big hill on a long board, try rock climbing (thats what I do), try ultimate frisbee...relationships are a nuisance at this time in your life.

Good luck

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A male reader, tux United States +, writes (5 March 2009):

tux agony auntStaying optomistic is the way to stay. Do not categorize all women by the actions of a few. In the end, all women will leave you until you find that one that doesn't. Enhoy the hunt while you can. (I'm saying this to both guys and gals)

As far as being first and only... That's a whole 'nother story.. If I was in Vegas, I would bet that you weren't. I find comments like that tend to be an ego boost tactic to emotionally draw one towards another person.

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