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writes:i have recently become very self conscious about my body. i'm petite with b cup boobs and i am not one who likes exercising. im not fat, though im not skinny either.my boyfriend has recently suggested me to start exercising, and though he says its because i should just stay healthy since i dont do any sport, i see it as a subtle comment that i am chubby. i have started exercising more and eating less but my self esteem has plummeted. my boyfriend hardly gives me any compliments on my appearance. when i go out i feel jealous of my friends who are naturally thin and tall. i don't even enjoy dressing up when i go out because i dont want people to notice me and im im no mood for sex etc. because i feel so unattractive. i hate feeling this way. anyone have any tips? :(
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reader, QuirkLady  +, writes (10 July 2009):
 I think you should tell your boyfriend how you feel. Tell him that you'd like him to compliment you a bit more because you feel down. In the meantime it would be good to remember all the other wonderful qualities about yourself. It's not all about looks. You can feel good because you're smart, funny, kind, patient, etc. Look inside yourself and be proud of the whole person that you are. Beauty fades, anyway.
Good luck.
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reader, imcurioustoo +, writes (10 July 2009):
Im only 4' 11' so don't worry I weight 127 lbs and have c cup boobs myself and I don't exercise either.. And my boyfriend loves my body .. I am very self concios about my body too. so I can understand how you might feel.. Really more than anything its a matter of feeling compfy in your own skin.. Basically just do like 50 crunches when u wake up and b4 you go to bed that'll help tighten your tummy and then your all good .... that's what I did and it worked for me! Best of luck
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