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writes:I am 15 years old and I have only been dating my boyfriend for a week.But we have been messing around for 2 months and I just currentlyfound out that I was pregnant.I'm not to sure what to do or what to think I have no jobI am homeschooled a freshman again and i'm not sure howto tell my mother eithershe just had a baby and i don't know how to break the news to her that i'm going to have a baby help! Reply to this Question
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reader, Rachel O  +, writes (10 July 2009):
 You need to tell your mum, if you dont want to say it to your mum face to face, why dont you text her, ring her or write it down on paper but to be honest it is best to say face to face. You are going to have to tell beacuse she is going to notice the bump. Your also going to have to be prepared for you mums reaction, dont go mouthing off like i did, it just makes the whole thing even worse.
Get a job to show you going to support the baby.
i know how you feel, ive been though the same situation.
Good luck x
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reader, angelsrock18 +, writes (10 July 2009):
 well i don't know if you kknow for shure you are pregnant but take a test if you don't know. Maybe you should get a job application and tell your mother you're going to get a job to support the child. And i would be scared to but you need to be honest because she is going to notice anyways.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2009): I agree with tux. My daughter, 18 recently gave birth to my 1st grandchild (a baby girl-1 month old). Though she had graduated high school, she knew that this would be a big disappointment to me as her mother, as she had a full scholarship to go to law school. I love my children beyond words, and I knew that she would be a good mom. She did tell me, but not until I learned through the grapevine (do not let this happen). We have always been close, and I was shocked to hear this news through a casual aquaintance. You do need to tell your mother, as she will be support to you. It may be difficult at first, but please do not let her hear from someone else. Be strong for yourself, your Mom, and your unborn child.
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reader, sadandlonelymrs +, writes (10 July 2009):
I agree with tux. My daughter, 18 recently gave birth to my 1st grandchild (a baby girl-1 month old). Though she had graduated high school, she knew that this would be a big disappointment to me as her mother, as she had a full scholarship to go to law school. I love my children beyond words, and I knew that she would be a good mom. She did tell me, but not until I learned through the grapevine (do not let this happen). We have always been close, and I was shocked to hear this news through a casual aquaintance. You do need to tell your mother, as she will be support to you. It may be difficult at first, but please do not let her hear from someone else. Be strong for yourself, your Mom, and your unborn child.
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reader, tux +, writes (10 July 2009):
 well at least you can get some hand me downs from your mother's new baby..
But in the end, you are going to have to tell her about your situation and let her know what you are going through. She might possibly be a little upset, but in the end she's there to help her child(you) succeed at life and of course now she'll have a grandchild to look to help as well. BUt you just need to bring up your courage to tell her... You can only hide it for so long and by that time, she'll be mad at you for not saying anything to her.
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