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anonymous
writes: i've had this thing around my rectal opening for quiet a time , protruded hemorrhoids , it is in an early stage from the pictures i saw online ,i'm really embaressed by it and can't go to a doc , is it normal or common , do guys find it disgusting ? what can i do about it .. thanks Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, jaime90 +, writes (10 July 2009):
insensitive? its plain stupid when someone knows they need to see a doctor and wont
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2009): dont listen to jaime90, she is just insensitive.
We are all a little embarrased by things on our bodies, no one is perfect. You will have to go to the doctors sooner or later for a papsmear or some other reason so just build up the courage and talk to the doctor, they will not make you feel uncomfortable, you will be suprised when you eventually do, and you will see that it wasnt as bad as what you thought it would be.
As for boys, unless your planning on anul sex dont worry, they shouldnt be looking at your butt hole, and if you find a keeper, they wouldnt care anyway.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2009): Go to a dr if you are having problems with them. At some point in your life you are going to have to have them sorted out as they tend to get worse with age and pregnancy.
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reader, Beingblack +, writes (10 July 2009):
Lots of women have them. They do not affect sex in any way, unless you are planning anal. Most men wouldn't give two hoots about them, when they are about to have vaginal sex. If you are too embarrassed to see a doctor then you have a problem. Unless of course, you happen to have a surgical laser in your bathroom. They don't go away on their own, you need medical help.
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reader, jaime90 +, writes (10 July 2009):
go see a doctor or dont complain
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2009): Be sure to eat lots of fiber and dont have anal sex until it goes away.
Oatmeal and Apples are foods I would recommend.
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