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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: i constantly feel ugly(whether its the fact that m on the chubby side or that i tend to break out with acne due to stress or that every day seems a bad hair day to me!) and i am scared my guy wil leave me for someone prettier. We have been together for over 2 yrs now yet the insecurity does not leave me.....i have even told him about all this and he keeps telling me that i am the prettiest girl he knows and boosts up my self esteem.....but the moment i see other girls in my friend circle i wonder that he mite be feeling that he chose the ugliest girl out of all!!! i know its stupid but i would really appreciate some help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2009): Dear swan in the making,
let go of your insecurities - he has been with you for 2 years.... count them, thats a long time. Yo are the harshest judge of yourself.
Think you need to think ok how do i become a swan. Well swans smile more than ducks. So try that? then find what he likes and become like that. If he likes the colour red, better than blue... and you can wear red, wear red....
Don't be jealous, be proud - two years is a good time... be happy swan to be.
Star.x.
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