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Is there any way to find out who the father is before the baby is born?

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Question - (10 July 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 10 July 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *uckybabe468 writes:

Ok here is my problem, I just have discovered that I am pregnant but the problem is, I don't know who the father would be. Two weeks ago I had unprotected sex with a really close friend, and then about 5 days later I got back together with an ex and we ended up having unprotected sex as well. My problem is that I really want to have this baby but I want to have it with the right guy, my ex and I are still going strong and my close friend got back together with the girl he has been madly in love with his whole life and I am afraid that the father is my close friend and I really don't want to hurt him and his girlfriend/fiancee by telling him he is the father so I wanted to know if there is anyway I can know who the father is before the baby is born?

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A male reader, tux United States +, writes (10 July 2009):

tux agony auntThere are methods of telling who is the father even before giving birth. But my guess would be that the father is whoever you had sex with before 2 weeks ago.. Because most people don't really realize they are pregnant until later.. unless you figured to take a pregnancy test because you weren't showing symptoms but thought you could be..

Of course, you can always take educated guesses as well, like when were you more fertile... 2 weeks ago or 5 days later.. but I wish you luck.

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