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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes: Well i still love him,but now he will not talk 2 me.I've known him for 4 years,and we hang out off and on. It breaks my heart that he will not even talk 2 me anymore. When he stop tslking 2 me i know i went way 2 far on sending text messages. That made things ten times worst. I told him that i've accepted that he's not talking 2 me anymore.Really i haven't,but i know the best thing 2 do is leave him alone. I hope one day he will talk 2 me again.I miss him so much!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2009): We don't know why he isn't talking to you now - whether you two had a big row or perhaps you simply drifted apart.Whatever the reason, yes, you should definitely not send any more texts, emails or phone him! Absolutely not. Rather than being heartbroken, you'd do better to try and cultivate the attitude that if he no longer wants to be in touch with you, then you have better things to do than hope he'll change his mind!Move on with your life and stop fretting. Why bother with someone who isn't concerned about you, after all?
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reader, Azula +, writes (11 July 2009):
Girl your message is incomplete. His reason of not talking to you.
But being as the person with the first hand information about the issue and you know what's the best for you.
Do it with no regrets.
Be happy in some other ways and stay happy.
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