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writes:My Girfreind [ been freind for 4 years been going out for 3months] doesnt want to see my C*ck.......she says they are ugly....... she doesnt want anything like Oral sex fingering because it is slutty..she is completely turned off by a C*ck and ejaculation disgusts her.....she does want sex with me in the future........my question is really........is it normal some girls dont actually like c*ck e.g. she isnt gay? thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2009): I dont think this is normal.. I've never heard of this.. I dont think c*cks are ugly, theyr supposed to be a turn on?
But I suppose she is young so she may not be ready for any sex or sexual contact so just wait until shes ready if you love her :)
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reader, pebble +, writes (11 July 2009):
 I can see where she's coming from. C*cks are ugly lol. I think now is too soon to worry about her feelings being a problem. If she's still of the same opinion in a few years then maybe there are some underlying issues going on. But for now, don't stress it.
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reader, joezigger +, writes (11 July 2009):
joezigger is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi........no sex isnt the only thing i want from her. I WILL Wait for her if i have to. it will be hard but i have no choice as i Love her.......Thankyou for your advice so far
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2009): She could be a lesbian, they do exist.If she says c**ks are ugly, this indicates that she's seen one before and wasn't particularly impressed. Her wider attitude towards sex being slutty and disgusting is a bit of a concern, and while I wouldn't panic at age 16-17, it's definitely likely to pose problems if she still feels the same way in a few years' time. At her age, though, no cause to panic. She could just be a late developer sexually. Give it time, enjoy your time together, and see how it goes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2009): Sounds like shes not ready or mature enough. Give her time, your still pretty young yourself. You have only been dating for 3 months, start worrying if she's still like this, on your wedding night!
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reader, QuirkLady  +, writes (11 July 2009):
 I see choppy waters ahead if she honestly thinks sexual acts are slutty and disgusting. That does not bode well for a healthy sexual relationship. You'll have to take it very slow and gentle with her to avoid that.
But yes, I have heard other women say that dicks are ugly. I don't agree with them but I have heard it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2009): Your girlfriend sounds like she just wants you to stop offering to show it to her and she isn't ready for sex yet...she is too young and she can get pregnant where you can't. Respect her wishes and stop trying to pressure her into having sex before she is ready.
I doubt that when she is ready that she will mean what she is saying to you know, it is a defense mechanism to keep her chastity....that is important to her apparantly.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2009): Run from her! You want a GF and lover who will love your c*ck, not be turned off by it. You will end up with a frustrating, unsatisfying, unhappy relationship with her, trust me. I dated great women lovers, and ended up with a woman who had little experience and hadn't orgasmed before me. I thought after she orgasmed, which she does with me almost every time, she would like sex more 'n more. ALthough she orgasms, it's a struggle to get her to go to bed with me. I miss my former adventurous passionate lovers -- don't settle. Life is too short.
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reader, 3z4 pupp3t +, writes (11 July 2009):
This is completley normal..some of the reasons in which she might not want to Is because she might not be comfortable with her body or with having sex yet......some thing you can do to understand her is sit down and talk to her about it...let her know that you are okay with having to wait just as long as she knows that you love her...
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reader, Azula  +, writes (10 July 2009):
 Man that's normal. Ladies are not as horny as you guys.Conservatives still lives on this planet. I hope it's not the only thing you are after on your girlfriend. She had assured you a sex so don't pressure her. Just enjoy each others company for now.But there are ugly cocks. They exist.Anyway, if that's the only reason why you think that she is a gay well the answer is no. If some other serious reason like kissing another girl, that's a thing to think about.
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