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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:hello everyone :)okay so today i had to go to drivers ed and pick up my friend "Jack" too.Jack and I have always been very close friends but about a month ago we took it a step forward....we disided to send pictures of our selfs to eachother(not naked just not exactly innocent) and said some not innocent at all things to eachother (but it was all over the phone). then when we went back to my house after the drivers ed class we were in my room talking but my brother was home and being a pain so Jack and i went to a house that my ex and i used to hang out at all the time (nobody lives there). at first we were just talking but then all the sudden he grabs me and kisses me so were standing there making out for a little bit when he starts to undo my pants but as soon as he did all i could think about was his ex and my ex (my ex and him are bff's) so i pushed him away but then i regreted it A LOT (i didnt pull him back though cause i figured it was to late) then for some unknown reson he started telling me he was sorry and he never ment for it to happen.my question:why did he apoligize? and what did he mean he never ment for it to happen?i do like him but i guess i just wasnt ready for all that.im so confused plez help!!thanks X
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reader, rcn +, writes (10 July 2009):
 Explain to him he wasn't forcing you. It sounds like he feels ashamed as if he had crossed over the boundaries from being okay to not being okay.
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reader, laura585 +, writes (10 July 2009):
He apologized because he figured since you pushed him away that you didn't want him to do that..... You are very young, I want to lecture you but I'm not your Mother... Just please be careful- its all fun and games now, but your childhood is very precious and you only get one. Don't get it mixed up with things like boys and sex and etc... Ok that's all I'll say, I hope you make good choices in your life. :)
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