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26-29,
*milee-Jess
writes:I NEED your help. The boy I have fancied for 2 years, told me a couple of days ago, that me and him would never work. Not even in secret. And it just made me feel like i am a no one. I need your help because, he is in the year above me, but we talk all the time, we see each other, all the time and we hang out. All the time. So, if i cant get over him. How am i going to learn to not come on to strong? I need your help to try and get over this boy, and move on, but still like him as a friend and not come on to strong to him. I NEED HELP!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2009): Well, to get over him you need to keep your distance for awhile and not hang out or talk to him. He isn't interested in anything more than friendship and he was honest and told you so, so that is admirable on his part as long as he doesn't try to purposely hurt your feelings.
You have a crush on him it sounds like, just replace him with another crush, find someone else or something else to think about, hopefully, school work.
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reader, Azula  +, writes (11 July 2009):
 Oh that's a great downfall! Girl he would not be your first boyfriend if he agrees right? Other guys have been interested on you, right?
Well you just might not be his type even a bit for him to say that on you. Girl time to set your mind on other things. You just might be giving meaning to his kindness.
I might sound rude but I think that's how the story goes for you.
Sorry but you really need to move on.
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