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writes:Guy are always to assured of me from the start? Now I want to start playing hard to get with this new guy I met? So I don't always want to be available? Any good ideas or success stories would be SO appreciated... Reply to this Question
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reader, sammi star  +, writes (13 July 2009):
 Well when you play hard to get with a guy there's always a chance it'll backfire!
But, you definitly don't want to seem that you're always available so just make sure that you're out there having fun with your friends, not waiting by the phone.
Call him now and again but don't always be the one to make the first move.
When he asks you out tell him you're busy that night, out with the girls or something and let him suggest an alternative date.
Don't be too unavailable though, make him put in the effort but if you take it too far he'll think you're just not that interested!
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