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writes:Hi I'm 23 years old and pregnant this is my first child. My man has a wife and two children already. I got married to him because I loved him and he loved me too. Things were fine before marriage and I thought everything will go fine. But things have changed drastically after marriage. He does not support me emotionally. My pregnancy does not excite him he treats me badly and gets angry often. He does not take responsibility for any thing. I stay with my parents he does not stay with me he gives full attention to his first family and children. I feel like killing myself as I cannot accept this situation. I'm in deep tension can't concentrate in anything I just feel like crying every time Its very frustrating. Please help me what should I do I love him dearly and want him to realise that I need him Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank u for that valuable suggestion. I want to concentrate only on my child now. I've waited enough for him to change his attitude but his taken me granted. I'm finding difficult to go through this phase of life. Is there something where i can divert my mind and get out of this painful situation. I can't believe my man has done this to me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2009): you knew this man was married yet you had an affair with him. he is not going to change his attitude towards you. he will be worse when this innocent child is borne since he thinks you have trapped him deliberately. are you even now legally married to this man.
tis child is innocent from any mess created. your priority should now not be this man but your unborn child.
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reader, Lilly Rose  +, writes (10 July 2009):
 Well you need to think about your baby...getting stressed and upset is not good for your health so not good for the baby! Talk to your husband....ask him why he acting like this....let him know you feel alone on this....your married and having a baby so you should be working as a team wether he has other children or not.....
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