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writes:So this is long, but I need some advice. Me and my boyfriend were together for about seven months. I had never felt so strong about another person and told me how much i meant to him and how much he loved me evert day. Well, something happened between him and his sister who he is very close to, a little less than a week ago. Before this, things were good, but I noticed that he started to get very short with me and starting telling me things like I was ignorant or got mad when I would complain about little things. Anyways, he went out with some friends one night and didn't call me when he got home. I told him it was bullshit that he didn't have time to call me and that he did stress me out because of it. He said okay good for you. The next day I told him we needed to talk, and I just said I need him to be nicer. He just kept saying ok. As soon as we got off, he texted me saying that he wants to take things day by day because he wants to have time to himself. He then told me that he could not treat me better because he is miserable, not because of me, but just in general. I told him that I didnt believe in taking breaks and told him to just leave me alone. He said fine and to call him when i wanted to maintain a friendship. I told him if this was the case then I would be single and move on. He said fine, and that if he wanted to be with me in the future he will work to get me back. He then said how he wanted to be single and that was it. He said he needed time to think about everything and apologized. Completely devastated, a called him crying a few hours later. I came clean about a few things that I lied to him about, and he stayed on the phone with me for a good amount of time. He then told me he would call me back in a little bit. He never did, so I texted him telling him I was going out of town for a few days and during that time we should not be talking so we could allow everything to sink in. He agreed and told me to call him when I got back. Well, I didnt end up leaving and a few days have passed. I feel sad and I can't eat or sleep. I know I shouldn't call him, but a part of me wants to. What do I do? Is there any hope of us getting back together based on what he had told me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNo. I have not posted three other posts? I only asked a question about this once.
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reader, thatgothgirl20  +, writes (10 July 2009):
 You are trying to be too controlling. This is why he is wanting to be single. I think he should be nicer to you and not make excuses for his behaviour and apologize for how he acted towards you, but at the same time if he wants a break, he's taking a break, whether you like it or not and that includes breaking up with you if he has to. Are you the same person who posted up three other posts? The English looks the same.
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