Should I believe a Married Man?

A female age 36-40, anonymous writes:

About a month ago I was out havin drinks with a friend of mine. we met two guys at a bar and started havin great convo. at the end of the nite we kissed and i got his number 2 days later i sent him a text and 2 days later i got a response. later on we talked on the phone.we met up hung out for a bit an things got a lil hot and heavy. so i figured since he approached me he was single. wrong. he has been married for 10 yrs and has children. tells me he got married cus his now wife got pregnant and he has been unhappy for quite some time. so i stopped contact for awhile and called him about a wk later and he tells me o i thought u decided to get rid of me, then tells me he misses me..although u are not supposed to miss ur mistress. he is currently on vacation with his family but told me i cud call his phone whenever to leave voicemails.. and he is lookin forward to seeing me when he gets back. the cell number is his work number that he says i can call anytime no one looks at it. i know this is a bad situation and i tell myself i am not goin to contact him.. but i cant stop thinkin about him. if he is so easily lyin to his wife how am i supposed to believe anythin he says, i have asked him this b4 and his response was he has no reason to lie to me. on the other hand i can believe it, maybe he truly is unhappy and is honest with me. its hard to tell. in a sense i dont want to furthe the situation, and in another sense i do. help..

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