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6 years ago he touched me inappropriately and now he wants to be friends!

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Question - (10 July 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 23 July 2009)
A female United States age 26-29, *rook_e_boo writes:

when i was 7 i was sexualy touched during a game of truth or dare. The rules were was if u don't do the dare u had to take a pice of cloths of and i had gottin down to my underwear and shirt and when i did not do another dare i did not want to take any cloths off and then this guy he was like 10 he was my best friends boy friend and he took me into a room to try to get me to take my clothss off.

He tryed to get me to do it for at lease 10 min. and then he reache for my underwear and took it off and then he yold me that if i screamed or anything i would die cause he had a knife in his pocket so he told me to sit on the bed and he went to go tell the others that i would still not give in so he went back and started touching me but he never fingered me tho. but then when i came out he let me put my cloths on and i graved there phone and ran

well i got my bro he ran over really fast to were i was and saved me and then we called the cops and the cops did not belive me so he never got into trouble

and now he is hangin around more and he wants to be friends

but the question is should i trust him???it has been 6 years!!!!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2009):

i wouldn't he'll now that hes 16 he might try to go further than just touching you

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A female reader, iLuvMusic14 United States +, writes (10 July 2009):

iLuvMusic14 agony auntNo, if he threatend u once.

WHat makes u think he won't do it again?

Now he's older.

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A female reader, babymama99 United States +, writes (10 July 2009):

babymama99 agony auntHe is bigger and stronger now.

You could say well he was only 10 then. Well I don't know to many 10 year olds that will tell someone they will hurt them with a knife and then proceed to touch them against their will. this is NOT a normal 10 year old, and he is probably not a normal 16 year old now. he has never showed any remorse which tells me that he would do it again given the chance.

I wouldn't trust this guy at all. not then, not now, not 20 years from now.

btw: 7 is way to young to be playing strip truth or dare.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (10 July 2009):

Honeypie agony auntNo. If he at the age of 10 threatened you with a knife to get undressed what do you think he might be capable now?

Nu uh, stay away from that guy. He is bad news.

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A female reader, Lovely Sweet Laura Canada +, writes (10 July 2009):

Lovely Sweet Laura agony auntYou don't need people who used you in the past in your life. Chances are they will just do so again in one form another. If he didn't respect you then and has never admitted that he now understands that what he did was wrong and how it hurt you then he won't respect you now. I'd say you are better off to stay away from this guy. Best of Luck

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