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*ogoodtobetrue
writes:I have a new friendship and I realy like the guy. I was engage a year back but broke it of after 8years because it couldn't come to a point. This new guy was also engage till about 6months back. He havn't had a relationship since yet because he don't feel ready off course- and want a little time with his friends. I was again neglected in my relationship so I can't wait to be loved. He said he likes me but he just want to take it slow and I don't have a problem with that or to give him plenty of time to do what he wants? I know this is not a guy that just say this, I realy knows he likes me and he wants to see me but for now it is just once a week. but what can I do to help him overcome this problem and how can I make it nice for him to be with me (how can I entertain him) so that he can miss me and start wanting to be with me more often?? Reply to this Question
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reader, Lovely Sweet Laura  +, writes (10 July 2009):
 This may not make sense right now but trust me it will work. Be unavailable. Next time he wants to see you be sure to have plans already and tell him you would like to but you already had plans for that time. Guys like to chase girls and when they are always sitting around waiting to see them they get bored because it isn't a challenge to get some of your time. Being unavailable will make him wonder if you are still interested which will make him want to see you more often so that he can get an idea of how you feel. Just try it once and see how he reacts. I think you may be pleasantly surprised. If it has a good effect than keep it up. Not all the time but every once in awhile be sure to let him know you are a busy person too and that you aren't just sitting around waiting for him. Best of Luck
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