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Stupidly didn't use protection and now am afraid

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Question - (10 July 2009) 6 Answers - (Newest, 10 July 2009)
A female Spain age 30-35, *iema.x writes:

I had sex with my boyfriend on the 26th of june and id just finished my period on the 25th of june stupidly we didnt use protection but he said he didnt come in me and that he withdrew , however i feel really worried and im scared that i could be pregnant i cant wait another week to see if my period is late :(

help . However i have not experienced any symptoms.

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A female reader, betty_black United Kingdom +, writes (10 July 2009):

betty_black agony auntI know more than one girl who has fallen pregnant using the withdrawal method, its not true that you cant fall pregnant from pre-cum, if that is true why do you think so many catholics fall pregnant? DONT stress out, this can prevent your period from happening, i know i did the same, and if it doesnt come take a test. Either take a home one or go to your drs to be even more certain. The chances are youre probably not, especially considering it was a day after your period.

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A female reader, Praffy  +, writes (10 July 2009):

Praffy agony auntThere are no symptoms of pregnancy that will show in 2 weeks time. Counting on your periods to judge whether you are or not is not advisable as due to stress your periods may come late. I advise you to immediately consult a doctor as even yhough he says he did not ejaculate in you there are 0.1% chances that the pre-cum did the trick and its not advisable to take a chance!!

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A female reader, Lovely Sweet Laura Canada +, writes (10 July 2009):

Lovely Sweet Laura agony auntTake a deep breath and relax. Chances are you are not pregnant. There is no way of knowing for sure though unless you do a test. There are some out there that will tell you a week before your expected period. Worrying about it can cause stress and may actually delay the onset of your period. If you had just finished your period chances are you weren't ovulating as this occurs mid-cycle. However your body may not always follow the same schedule so it is still possible. My suggestion would be to either take the test and settle your worry or think positively and wait and see if your period arrives on time. Almost all women have experienced a scare similar to the one you are experiencing at one time or another. It is a good way to keep us conscious about protection and take steps to prevent a scare from happening again in the future. I'm sure you will never risk it again so that your mind can remain at ease. Best of Luck

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2009):

hi,

not to frighten you but some boyfriends do often say they havent cummed in you, to make you feel relaxed about the situation, however people do not always suffer symptoms in pregnancy, so as far as you i would get a pregnancy test just to be sure, and to make a trust bond stronger with your boyfriend do the pregnancy test with him. dont be scared what ever the outcome, there is plenty of help out there to help you.

hope i helped and i dont mean to scare you if i have! its jsut the true basics.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2009):

You should be okay however, take a home pregnancy test just in case.... Now... go and see your doctor and get some contaceptive pills and use those in conjunction with a condom.

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A female reader, Rachel O United Kingdom +, writes (10 July 2009):

Rachel O agony auntive been though the same problem as you, you can still get pregant even if he withdrew so id go to the clinic as soon as you can to get checked, bring you boyfriend with you as it is nice for support and someone to hold your hand.

Good Luck x

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