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reader, laura585  +, writes (13 July 2009):
Trying to make a decision about sex? Just because (I'm assuming) your a virgin NOW doesn't mean it will stay that way until your 40 unless you make absolutely no effort whatsoever. Personally I wouldnt marry either one. Most guys I know lean to the "slut" side- they can stay on that side for all I care. A 40 year old virgin might not be so bad- if I was around 40 too- but now- I dont do huge age gaps. Well it's too late for me to be a 40 year old virgin- since I'm not a virgin- but I wouldn't be a slut either. I have respect for myself and my body so I don't give it away easily- or at all in most cases. There are my answers on which would I rather be and which I would rather marry. :) Is this a survey? lol
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reader, x_Joe_x  +, writes (12 July 2009):
x_Joe_x is verified as being by the original poster of the questionBecause I'm kinda confused about myself ?!?!?!
Shoud I envy a slut or 40 years old virgin guy ?
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reader, DLover  +, writes (11 July 2009):
I think you should definetly know that average age for first time sex is 17, and there is a huge variety around that. Don't stress it out.
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (11 July 2009):
 I think it's a hypothetical question.
No one WANTS to be a 40-year-old virgin, let's face it, but it doesn't make you a bad person, or inferior. If you haven't met the right person, it's unfortunate, but having sex with the WRONG person isn't going to rectify that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2009): yes..why the extreme..being slut would harm u more than being virgin..belive me !!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2009): Personally, I would want many lovers, a male slut. However, I would not marry a female slut. Double standard? You bet! Alive well.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2009): Both have their benefits.
I say save yourself as long as you want.
But make sure it's only for YOURSELF that you are holding off. Just remaining abstinent yourself is not gonna do much of anything to help earn you a more chaste girl down the road, no matter how right and logical that idea seems.
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reader, TheAgonyAunt  +, writes (10 July 2009):
 Save your v for someone special.
:)
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reader, Azula  +, writes (10 July 2009):
 Both of them is bad. But if i choose to marry I would like a virgin, I think.Maybe something in the middle.Not virgin but not into many partners but have enough experience.Why do you ask such questions?What for?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2009): I think you should have sex with as many people as possible until you're way too old.
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reader, bOy CrAzY;} +, writes (10 July 2009):
Haha neither one sounds good but I really don't want to keep my verginity for that long but I don't want to be a skank why do you ask such a questions?
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reader, yodastud +, writes (10 July 2009):
Neither is "better". Do what what is right for you, but always treat yourself and your sexual partners with respect. Sex is usually better when there is caring and an emotional connection. If you want to remain a virgin, that's fine too (what is "way too old?")
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reader, x_Joe_x +, writes (10 July 2009):
x_Joe_x is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOne of them could be the best or worst, and if you were to choose whom would you like to marry ? and who would like to be ?
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reader, laura585 +, writes (10 July 2009):
Somewhere in between is probably better.
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (10 July 2009):
 Good question by Eyes. Why the extremes?
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (10 July 2009):
 Why the two extremes? Neither sounds good to me.
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