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Madly in love.... but afraid of marriage! Help!

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Question - (10 July 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 10 July 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I have been with the same man for 3years and I am madly in Love with him, there is no doubt in my mind that I want to spend the rest of my life with him. The only problem is that I fear marriage. I trust him with all of my heart, I just am afraid of getting hurt or losing him and I fear divorce. Does anybody have any suggestions about getting over my fears? They've become so bad that I spend hours online looking up topics on marriage success and failure. I also am convinced that every marriage will have some form of infidelity within it, whether either of the partners ever finds out or not. Do you believe this to be true? Help is greatly appreciated. Thank you.

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A female reader, thatgothgirl20 United States +, writes (10 July 2009):

thatgothgirl20 agony auntI got cold feet when it came to marriage as well, so we did it fast. We got married at a legal place.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2009):

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Thank you damluvaam for some mature advice. I completely agree that I need to do a bit of soul searching before I make a commitment.

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