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writes:My boyfriend and I broke up 3 months ago because he couldnt decided if he wanted to be with me or be single. I let him make the choice after being with him for 2 years making sure he knew I tried and it was his decision. We promised to remain friends and have ever since. I moved 9oo miles away and go back home often to visit my family and friends. I just found out that after the last time I was home and was with him, im pregnant. He has admitted that it was a huge mistake but I was crushed and am not ready to move back and give up my life in my new house. I think he wants to keep the baby...but he hasn't said it. I want to but I can't because I don't want to be a single parent to this child. What do I do?
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries  +, writes (10 July 2009):
 well sweety if you have the financial ability to keep it and support it and yourself then go for it but you don't want to be a single parent maybe talk to your ex and find out his oppions on the matter maybe he would like to be a father to the child.
i mean it's all really what you want to do do you want to bring up a little baby in this world?
i know you say you don't want to be a single parent raising a child but anyone can do it just if you need help along the way then ask and if the father wants it too perhaps he can help you out =]
but you need to really think hard this isn't an easy descision.
if you do want the baby whether you're a single parent or not you need to make sure you've got support money and a place to live because it's expensive bringing up a baby and if you've got a steady job and good money then i don't see why not but if not then perhaps this isn't for you.
you do need to talk to your ex about this though find out what he wants to do..?
he may actually want a little baby but he may want to stay single with no responsibilities.
so talk it through with him find out what he wants to do.
hope this helps :)
good luck
x ilovebowsandcherries x
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (10 July 2009):
 Find out how you can give the baby up for adoption and discuss this with him.
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