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Is he gay?

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Question - (10 July 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 10 July 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Ok, So I was In my senior year of high school,and I met a dude. First, it started off as friends...me being gay and attracted to him I told him I was gay. He told me he didnt really care his exact words were, "Im Open Minded that stuff doesnt really bother me" so we kept txting...and I caught myself thinking well a straight guy wouldnt stick around if u know what I mean..but he txt me everyday! Anyway, I fell in love with him..u know all that crap. I eventually told him that as well by this time we had meet up and chatted acouple of time late at night..I knew he was ashamed alittle prob. Then we started talking about sex and it got pretty good lol..He then started saying maybe I could give him a blowjob...so we met oh ya he is a virgin too..but anyway when it came right down to it he started shakeing and flipped...lol he kept telling me to do it just do it...I knew he was uncomfortable. So I said na man ill pass it might screw you up u know being a virgin and all...so we met more after that I finally got him to say "theres something about going with a guy thats comfortable"..WTF. lol now we have know each other for about 7 months...he started texting me again recently...and wants to meet up and have sex.HA!..he said he doesnt care anymore...btw he still resides as a straight dude...so we chat for weeks he told me he loves me and when I center him out for saying that he throws it off as were fuck buddies...IS HE GAY..OR WHAT?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2009):

How many 'go ahead, it's OK' hints does he need to give you?

Go for it, grab your chance with both hands (and lips!)

You shouldn't let this one get away. Have fun!

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A female reader, ilovebowsandcherries United Kingdom +, writes (10 July 2009):

ilovebowsandcherries agony aunti think he is gay but he's not really out of the closet yet due to people being anti gay or his family disowning him and finding it hard to come to terms with.

he clearly likes you wanting you to give him a blow job and stuff.

i mean he's texting you everyday as well no guy does that if they don't like you.

;)

get in there....

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A female reader, laura585 United States +, writes (10 July 2009):

Well no straight guys I know do anything sexual with other dudes. I think he's gay, but fears all the critisizing that can come with it. Maybe his family would disapprove, or his friends etc. I wouldn't pressure him to admit that he's gay- just have fun with the situation and once he's comfortable enough with it - he'll come around. Or at least he'll admit it to you- then everything else will work itself out in time.

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