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writes:i was with him before, he broke up with me. now, after 7 months we're back together. even though that's what i wanted, i have not been happy. i feel as if i'm the one trying to keep the relationship alive. i've displayed some angry attitudes toward him because i don't feel much care coming from him towards me. i really love him. he tells me he loves me, but i don't believe him. because he gives attention to certain girls more than he does to me. this particular one he's getting more and more friendly with- it reminds me of when we just met. worst of all, he's working with her. i'm afraid that he'll soon fall for her, and forget about me (she doesn't even know we're together)he hasn't told her. I'm in such great pain- literally! I want to end it tomorrow before he hurts me worst than the first time he broke up with me. Please, what should i do?
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reader, Theguynextdoor  +, writes (10 July 2009):
End it. i promise that its the right thing to do! there are sooo many guys out there that would love to have girls like you.. so end it and find one of those guys :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2009): Take matters into your own hands and end this relationship. He is not showing you the respect or attention that you deserve. The fact that he hasn't even acknowledged you as his girlfriend is very telling - if someone is with you they should be proud of it and open about it, not hiding it away so they appear to be free to pursue emotional or intimate relationships with others. In fact, he may simply be using you (possibly without realising it himself) to not be alone until someone else comes along to replace you. I speak from experience on this matter, and was in a very, very similar situation to you are now. Take back control of your own life and happiness. This relationship is not making you happy, and leaving him will still be painful for you, but that will fade in time and will hurt less than being thrown over by him a second time, especially if he leaves you for someone else. Leave him, stay strong and make a life for yourself that doesn't include him. You deserve to be Miss Number One in his life, not Miss Someone To Keep Him Company Until He Finds Someone Else.
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