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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Recently my boyfriend and I have been discussing the question about whether to stay together when I leave for college. I found him distant and avoiding when the question came up; he was also answering my texts every 5-10 hours and completely disappearing whenever he went on vacations. I took all of this as a sign that he didnt want to stay together, nor was he still as interested in me as he once was. It mad me angry and I vented by talking about him to one or two of my friends. We got over that patch and everything has been absolutely perfect. Until I left my phone in his car the other day. The texts from a month to two months ago plus others were in there and he read all of them.He said he was so hurt by what I wrote. He was going to tell me he loved me and always wanted to stay together when I left, just didnt know how to tell me. Now the things I said keep replaying in his head. I just want to know if he can ever forgive me. Ive apologized so many different was and poured my heart out to him, but nothing can take away the fact that I hurt him. Can we get over this and be okay again?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks a lot both of you. I have been talking to him and he's extremely hurt, but he says it will take time. I hate waiting for everything to be the same, but I am so grateful he wants to stay with me.
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reader, Starlights  +, writes (10 July 2009):
 Yes he will get over this in time if you support him.
it takes time to heal a hurt, though he may not forget it, if he loves u he will in time forgive you for this.
good luck!
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