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My boyfriend is going on a holiday...

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Question - (10 July 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 10 July 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *issLauren07 writes:

Hi ...

Well ive been going out with my boyfriend for about 3months now and i love him to pieces and his everything i want, however he went on holiday with nine of his mates, he come back and then the next day on facebook was aload of pictures of him and another girl huggin and stuff and then he was in her bed and she was in his, (they were both fully clothed so werent naked or owt), there isnt any signs of him kissin her but it was wired, then the next day there was a video of him and her in bed together talking about the nite before sayin it was ace n the clubs were good.

i dont think i wil be ever to trust him or forgive him for this, should i stay with him or end it, because his going on holiday again in augest and i dont no weather i should go through it or not? .. x

Thank you x

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A female reader, Lilly Rose United Kingdom +, writes (10 July 2009):

Lilly Rose agony auntWell its the kind of thing you do on lads holidays or even girl holidays....we take pictures with people we meet, usually all end back at someones hotel room....take more pics.....i think the fact he has loaded them to facebook shows he hasnt got anything to hide......what u should do is arrange a girlie holiday....take ur own pics then see how he reacts....but i think hes just being a lad! If you dont trust him tho then you need to talk to him, maybe tell him some of the pics in the bed upset u a lil see what he says! 3 months is still very early in a relationship stage!

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A female reader, Rachel O United Kingdom +, writes (10 July 2009):

Rachel O agony aunthmmm, why dont you sit down with him and talk to him about it and how you are feeling about the whole situation.

but if he has cheated, tbh be strong and leave beacuse if he really loved you he wouldnt have done it, i always say once a cheat always a cheat.

i know how you are feeling ive been there many times hun.

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A female reader, Honeygirl South Africa +, writes (10 July 2009):

Honeygirl agony auntSweetie, if you have lost all trust in your boyfriend and you have only been with him for 3 months, then maybe you should consider finishing with him.

Seems that you feel more for him than he does for you!

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