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writes:Okay so I have been talking to this guy for a year and we just started dating about 2 and a half months ago. I'm pretty sure I love him ha, actually I do love him. He means the world to me, well he's ready to have sex and I am too I'm pretty sure. the only thing that I'm worried about is getting pregnant.. I know I know, of course we are going to use a condom every time but I'm scared that whenever we do have sex all I'll think about is getting pregnant and we have already made plans on where we would do it, if I decided to and all that good stuff. All we, or he, is waiting on is me. even though he says he'll wait for me as long as he wants me to, I can tell he's getting a little anxious. so help! please!thanks(:
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (10 July 2009):
 Of course he is going to be ready for sex, all teenage boys are a bundle of testosterone and sex is all they think of!
If you are worried about getting pregnant, sex should be the last thing you should be considering.
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reader, laura585 +, writes (10 July 2009):
Sex is for reproduction. That is it's main cause... if in your life you are not in a situation that you could support a baby (judging by your age alone, you're not.) Then you are not ready for sex. Sex is a huge responsibility and even with proper precautions - pregnancy is a possibility. You dont really want your next question on Cupid to be "I'm pregnant! How do I tell my parents!" or something like that, do you? If you are not ready for a baby, you are not ready for sex. Being "ready for sex" means being ready to deal with all the responsibilities it comes with- not just being ready to "get off" with your boyfriend.
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries  +, writes (10 July 2009):
 well first off you're underage to be doing this.
second off you must make sure you take all precautions aka you take the pill he uses condoms and stuff.
if you're not ready then don't do it.
i mean it sounds to me like you're not that ready for it if you keep thinking about getting pregnant i mean yeah of course with ANYONE at ANY age there is the cause that you COULD get pregnant but if you take precautions i mean BOTH then you'll slim that chance down a hell of alot.
if you don't then you're increasing your chances and you're not ready to get pregnant obviously.
so you need to think to yourself are you really that ready?
if not and he's willing to wait then great! but if he isn't then he isn't worth the wait or giving yourself too.
Hope this helps hun
x ilovebowsandcherries x :)
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