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writes:I've been with my girlfriend for almost a year now that I love but lately I've noticed her acting very strange towards me in the last couple of months. When we have talked about it she says she doesn't know why she's been acting this way towards me but I feel there's something there but she's not telling me. I'd like to know.signed Anxious Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2009): Sometimes it's all about the right timing. Find the right time to talk to her, like when she's not busy. Tell her how you feel. Tell her that when she doesn't talk to you, you don't know how to make it better. Tell her that you've always wanted an open relationship... and that you've always been open with each other in the past. Tell her that whenever you have problems, you always talk about them to her (if this is true)Some girls are prone to clamming up when they have problems or when they're angry with you because they don't like confrontation. Be patient and persistent with her. Never get angry at her for not telling you things or else she may turn defensive. Just coax it out of her little by little. Tell her that you would like to make her feel better, but you can't do that without knowing why she's mad/sad/angry/quiet the past months. And when she starts talking to you... LISTEN!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2009): Pick up a copy of the book by John Gray, Men are from Mars Women are from Venus. Women act strangely sometimes and so do men....You are at a stage in your relationship where the masks are off and you are seeing the real her....and sometimes she is going to need to be distant from you, but she will come back....just get the book and you will see what I mean.
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reader, rndi lnn  +, writes (2 April 2009):
well, it could be a million reasons. i'm not going to put any in your head, though i'm sure your imagination is teaming with them. but most likely you're having a dry spell. it happens in every relationship. my boyfriend and i went through that at about 7 months. we've been together for 2 years now. you 2 need to just have a serious heart to heart and ask her to tell you the truth about how she feels. also let her know that you're okay with whatever she says. on the flip side you have to prepare yourself (or at least make an attempt to do so) for the worst. best of wishes to you. i'll say a prayer for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2009): Just talk to her :). I am sure everything is fine.
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reader, conswalo wasabi  +, writes (2 April 2009):
I would say dont jump to conclusions. She may just be moody which dont mean its your fault or indeed her's. Dont assume just because she starts acting different that she is hiding something. Trust her and support her. You might find thats all she needs
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