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writes:I have been with my boyfriend 6 years in january we had an argument lots of shouting and things said i didn't mean. A few days later he said he wanted to end it cuz after the row his feelings towards me had changed he wanted to be with me but just didn't feel the same anymore. I was devastated i loved him so much and couldn't believe he wanted to part over a row. A week later he got in touch and we got back together we met up and i was so happy but the next day he text and said im sorry but i just don't feel the same anymore and i don't think i ever will again. This happened again 2 weeks later. 3 weeks ago we got in touch with each other met up and ended up kissing and got back together we have been together since and getting on fine but it has felt different before he told me he loved me every single day but not this time, i decided to ask him if he loves me he said im afraid i do so u better get used to it. Do you think he was avoiding answering me properly or he still does. I miss him saying it so much. We are both 39 by the way. Thanks for your advice in advance
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2009): Thank you for your replies, i think you are right he never really stopped loving me.Maybe im expecting too much too soon its just things feel different to how they were, he used to text me all the time just to say stuff like i just wanted to let you know i was thinking of you, and if we couldn't see each other at weekends he would text all the time but he only really texts now if i do. I think i need to calm down and take things slowly and we will get back to where we were, i really hope so.,
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (3 April 2009):
If he didn't love you he wouldn't have got back with you.
You said "Do you love me?" and he said "I do."
Just because he didn't use the EXACT phrasing you wanted to hear means nothing.
Now go and make him see why he did love you and show him you weren't that horrible person he saw when you argued.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, catt17  +, writes (2 April 2009):
I think men just get tired of the same old daily routine and need to stir things up a bit, even if its to tell you that they arent sure how they feel at the moment..I swear men PMS too and go through mood swings and phases that they themselves cannot explain. Whatever you do, dont press the issue, or it will make you seem needy. Just make sure you look nice, go about your day, walk by him and swing your hair back, walk full of confidence and he will be telling you he loves you again in no time. I think hes just having a man moment and theres not one man out there that doesnt hate fighting or get screwy about it...lol
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