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writes:Argh! i am 20 years young and singlethis really bugs me!i've not had a relationship for a long time i've liked guys but you know things happen like they don't like me so on so forth.anyways when it does come to guys liking me! i never seem to feel the same or i think i do but i am not sure hence the fact nothing happens because i'm never sure.because in the future i do like to see my self married with a family and i don't know whether i am holding onto me finding the one i am meant to be with which could be a long while away i know that i just don't know why i am like that!Do you think i'm waiting too much for my mr perfect and happily ever after?can someone give me advice?i don't care for rude advice givers either so if you don't have anything nice to say please don't bother saying it.Thank you :) Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2009): thank you for your replies :) appreciate it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2009): Anyone you go out with has to be attractive to you in some way, whether that be in looks, humour, beliefs. So holding out does not meant you are waitng for mr perfect, mr right. it just means no-one has turned your head.I think you are worrying for nothing mate. When you do fal for someone, he might not turn out to be the 'real thing' but you'll have liked him. You don't have to kiss all the frogs before you find your prince.Good luck, relax and be happy
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (2 April 2009):
I'm 25 and I haven't found a tenner on the floor in AGES.
What you are describing here is a run of bad luck.
Damn right you should hold out for your perfect guy. Never ever settle.
The best advice I can give is just to make sure you have a jet powered social life. Meet as many new people as possible.
And yes, don't think that by agreeing to go for dinner, you are bound to marry them. In America they date like 20 people at the same time and then just pick one to be "exclusive" with and dump the rest.
I think it's a silly system and ours is much better but I just wanted to say that if you are not sure about a guy then take a chance, go out with him a couple of times but say you want to take things slow as you don't like rushing into things.
If after a couple of dates you feel nothing then just tell them you are sorry but you don't think it's going to go anywhere. You'll have had fun, and a kiss or two so no harm done. Just make sure you don't have sex till you're sure you like him and he likes you and you've been together a good few weeks if not more.
Give it a try and don't worry. I do think fate has a role in this kind of thing, but you have to put yourself in a position where fate can do something for you.
Good Luck!! xx
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